Hello again my sexies!
Back in the day the famous “Dating Game” used to be simple. Girl meets boy, boy asks for girl’s phone number, girl gives it to him, boy phones girl and sets up a date and viola – the date is set.
However, in today’s world it seems more complicated. Girls tend to make the first move and boys don’t know where they stand, but girls feel that if they don’t do anything, boy will be approached by another girl. It seems to have turned into Survival of the Sexiest.
What are you supposed to do?
Facebook friend request? BBM Pin request? Admit it, you probably know more about the object of your desire than you need to since you probably stalked one of their social media profiles….
But who makes the rules? And why does it always have to be a game? I mean, you might not think it is, but the other person might be set in a specific way thinking “Why should I make the first move?”. At the end of the day you’re playing a cat and mouse game that might end up in tears and could have been avoided all together.
In my opinion, The Dating Game has certain ways to work for certain people. Being an old-fashioned girl, I believe a guy should always make the first move, but I realize that even though I’m not shy, per say, I am not going to go up to a guy asking for his phone number, so I might look snobbish and maybe even a like I’m not interested.
If you’re interested in someone, look their way, even flash a smile and carry on with what you’re doing. If they get it, cool. If they don’t, cool too.
For the guys: I’m sure I’m not the only female who’s thinking this way – MAKE THE FIRST MOVE!
If she smiles at you, she’s interested. Go up to her and start a conversation. Don’t be embarrassed or talk about embarrassing things. Talk about your surroundings, the weather, how her week was, whatever. Then, when the conversation goes good, ask if you can talk to her later and get the number. TA-DA!
Well, hope I did my good deed for the week.
Have an awesome and wacky Hump Day